Boys and Girls Take Different Paths to Empathy
Empathy is a trait that develops during adolescence. However, it seems that the course of development might be gender-specific.
By Tara Kuther
Empathy, the capacity to take another person’s perspective and appreciate their emotion, is thought to increase over the course of adolescence with advances in cognition and emotion. Some evidence suggests that boys and girls diverge in their tendency to empathize, with girls showing more empathy as they progress through adolescence. To date, however, research on gender differences and patterns of empathy development during adolescence have been based on group comparisons and short multi-year samples, with mixed findings. Changes in the brain that accompany puberty may underlie advances in empathy. Specifically, the areas of the brain responsible for perspective-taking mature during adolescence. Neurological changes also underlie shifts in adolescents’ emotional processing, leading them to experience emotions more intensely. Despite these findings linking pubertal timing with cognitive and affective change, no research has looked at the relation of pubertal development to empathy.
Van der Graff and colleagues examined empathy development and its relation with pubertal timing with a sample of 497 Dutch adolescents (283 boys and 214 girls) from four cities and surrounding areas in the Netherlands. They assessed the teens annually from ages 13 to 18 as part of an ongoing longitudinal study. Two aspects of empathy were measured at each of the six time points: perspective taking (“I try to look at everybody’s side of a disagreement before I make a decision.”) and empathic concern (“I often have tender, concerned feelings for people less fortunate than me.”). Pubertal status was measured four times (from ages 13 to 16) with a 4-item self-report scale.
Growth curve analyses showed different patterns of change for boys and girls over the six year period. As compared with boys, girls showed more advanced perspective taking at age 13, followed by a steep increase that quickly leveled off. Boys, on the other hand, showed a decline in perspective taking early to middle adolescence with a subsequent increase. A similar pattern occurred for empathic concern. Girls showed higher levels of empathic concern at age 13 and their scores remained stable throughout adolescence. Again, boys showed a decline in empathic concern from early to middle adolescence, followed by a rebound from middle to late adolescence. In addition, pubertal status was associated with empathic concern in boys. At age 15 and 16, boys who were more physically developed reported lower levels of empathic concern compared with their less developed peers. When pubertal status was controlled, however, boys’ dip in empathic concern from early to middle adolescence disappeared.
Overall these results suggest that perspective taking and empathic concern develop over the course of adolescence. Parents, teachers, and others who work with adolescents can benefit from awareness that, although boys may show less concern about others and be less likely to help others during early and mid-adolescence, these changes are often temporary and a consequence of the dip in perspective taking and empathic concern that occurs in early to mid-adolescence.
Van der Graaff, J., Branje, S., De Wied, M., Hawk, S., Van Lier, P. & Meeus, W. (2014). Perspective taking and empathic concern in adolescence: Gender differences in developmental changes. Developmental Psychology, 50(3), 881-888. doi: 10.1037/a0034325